From Chapter 1:
Why
Women Are Attracted To Things Like Fame, Money And Power
...
I say that women are attracted to men that are famous, rich and powerful for a
REASON.
My opinion is that women believe on a genetically and socially programmed, unconscious level that these men are more intelligent, more fun, more interesting, more able to give them the lifestyle - and MOST IMPORTANTLY- give them the FEELINGS that they want.
In
his book 'Influence' Robert Cialdini talks about a psychological principle
called the 'Halo Effect.' In a nutshell, humans naturally assume that
attractive and powerful people are smarter and more trustworthy
than average people.
A
woman desires a man that fits into her self image fantasies that have been
forming since she was very young. And thanks to Disney these fantasies were
imbedded even further than her genetic wiring ever intended.
Overall,
the answer is to realize that rich, powerful, famous guys have the advantage at
the beginning from their FAMILIARITY and ASSUMED, PROJECTED positive traits.
But if you can learn to get a woman's attention and then give her the FEELINGS
that she's always wanted, she'll treat you like you're famous, rich, and
powerful as well.
A
tall, handsome man, or a famous rich man 'pushes a button' and triggers certain
feelings inside of a woman. If you're not rich, famous, tall and/or super
attractive, you have to learn to 'install the button' so that when they see
you, then have those feelings. The good news is that you can do this with most
women, whereas you cannot with most men.
While women are interested in looks to some degree, they are MORE interested in how you make them feel. Even if you don't understand this, you have to believe it and start acting as though it's true.
You
must behave as if you confidently believe that you are the best thing for a
woman, and that you are going to make her feel wonderful inside.
Women
can pick up this particular belief, and they respond to it... [Continued In
Chapter 1.
