Transform Your Body Language
What body language can you use to attract a woman fast? Find out here…
By David DeAngelo
I'd like to tell you a story that you might find strangely familiar. Don't be alarmed.
Once upon a time, there was a man who was very attracted to a particular woman.
The more he got to know her, the more he began to feel attracted to her… and that attraction grew into a deep emotional attachment and affection for her.
But there was one problem.
As his emotional attachment grew stronger, he also grew more and more insecure.
Because he couldn't tell whether or not she felt the same way towards him.
Sometimes she would say things like “You are so important to me” and “I'm glad that you're in my life”… but nothing ever progressed past the “friendship” stage.
She wasn't acting like she was “falling in love”, but as a friend.
The insecurity that he felt became a spiral that amplified itself… and the more insecure he became, the more afraid he grew of “screwing things up” by kissing her or asking her to be his girlfriend.
Plus, the more insecure he became, the less time she seemed to want to spend with him.
After spending many days and nights obsessing over this girl, the man finally arrived at the conclusion that if she only knew how HE FELT, that she would feel the same way.
So he made a bold move.
He confessed that he was in love, and that he would do anything to be with her.
She looked at him with compassion in her eyes and said “Thank you… I really mean that… but I don't want to mess up our friendship… you're too important to me…”.
This only confused the man more.
Did it mean that she really loved him too, but that she was afraid of something?
Did it mean that she wasn't ready for a long-term relationship?
Did it mean that she didn't love him, and was trying to give him a hint?
Did it mean that he needed to put everything on the line and REALLY let her know how he felt?
He had to make sure that she knew just how much he wanted to be with her… so he bought her a gift, wrote her a long letter… again confessing his feelings.
She didn't reply.
He called her three times a day for almost a week before reaching her.
She made an excuse about being very busy, and said “I'll try to give you a call soon, I have to go…”
…but he never got a call back.
Over the following months, the man tried desperately to understand what went wrong… and what happened.
OK, I'm back.
Heart warming, huh?
I know, I should keep my day job, and not take up writing romance novels...
Now, let's talk about that story.
Because we've all been there in one way or another… and many of us have been there OFTEN in our lives.
In this particular situation I think there is a solution, and it lies in understanding a secret that women know but MEN DON'T.
In other words, they not only DON'T WORK, they actually make things WORSE, because they'll make you a “good friend” or she won't even want to be your friend… but will disappear forever!
So, don't confess your love BEFORE you had the chance to create attraction.
You might be thinking that building attraction is something that doesn't come to you naturally. And that's ok, because you can actually learn it!
Take some time to invest in yourself and learn some basic ideas about how to build attraction and you'll see results right away.
In my eBook Double Your Dating, I teach several techniques that you can use to make sure you create attraction with that special woman. And I'm not talking about manipulating her, or lying to her… but learning a different way of expressing yourself (through words, body language and attitude) that will make her see you as the man of her dreams… NOT as a best friend.
If you want to know EXACTLY how to handle it when you like a girl and want her to be attracted to you, go check out my eBook right now.
It took me a long time to figure this one out, and it turns out that most guys need to do the exactly OPPOSITE of what they THINK they should do. Find out the solution in my eBook right here: Double Your Dating Free Trial