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Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...
By David DeAngelo
MISTAKE
#1: Being
Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted “nice”
guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had
attractive female friends that always seemed to date “jerks”... but for
some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of
men on how “nice” a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel
a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman
FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman
CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn't make a
lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to
act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.
MISTAKE #2: Trying To
“Convince Her To Like
You”
What do most guys do when they
meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just
not interested?
Right! They try to “convince” the
woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU
WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN “FEELS” WHEN IT COMES TO
ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel
differently about you with “logic and reasoning”.
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't “feel it” for
you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being
“reasonable” with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested,
we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never
work.
MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women
(which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always
doing things to get a woman's “approval” or “permission”.
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the
types of men who kiss up to them... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for
them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman
well means “always getting her approval and permission for things”, think
again.
You will never succeed by looking
for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their
approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman
if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy
her...
MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection
With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a
woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her
REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you
did?
If you're like me, then you've had
it happen a LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this
happens...
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send
a clear message:
“I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to
buy your attention and affection”.
Your good intentions usually
come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak
attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as
MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE #5: Sharing
“How You Feel” Too Early
In
The Relationship With Her
Another
huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how
they “feel” too early on.
Attractive women are
rare.
And they
get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being
approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.
An
attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are
interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often
HUNDREDS of times per month.
And
guess what?
Attractive women have usually
dated a LOT of men.
That's
right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know
what to expect.
And one
thing that turns an attractive woman off and sends her running away faster
than just about anything, is a guy who starts saying “You know, I really,
REALLY like you” after one or two dates.
This
signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for
her too fast... and can't control themselves.
Don't do
it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a
much better way...
MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How
Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from
men when it comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and
deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful, young,
sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for
women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to
men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for
over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their
“attraction mechanisms” triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see
a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the
other way around?
Think about it.
Women are attracted to certain
qualities in men... and they're more attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL
than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body
language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same
kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a
hot, sexy young woman.
But it's not an accident. You have
to LEARN how to do this.
And ANY guy can learn
how...
MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes
that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because
they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks
and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain
age.
And sure, there are some women who
are only interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more
interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract
women like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and
how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to “settle” for a woman
just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how
to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women
feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when
you see a hot, sexy young woman.
MISTAKE #8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To
Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a
mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a
lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women
to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men
that they can walk all over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!
MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing
EXACTLY What To Do In
Each
Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your
mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're
thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better
than men at reading body language. That's TEN TIMES.
I know, it might be hard to
believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you
want to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you don't know exactly what
to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her
and getting nervous, she won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of
women and dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her
number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical... everything.
If you don't know what to do in
each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is VITALLY important that you
know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the
first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.
MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP
This is the biggest mistake of
all.
This is the mistake that keeps most
men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly
want.
I know, guys don't like to make
themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me
and how I figured out how to be successful with women...
About five years ago I became fed up with
the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with
women that I was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of
me.
One night I was out with a friend,
and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the
nerve to do it. I can still remember that night... right on the spot I
made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful
with women and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and
trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.
I can now approach just about any woman
and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated
actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.
It has been a very rewarding
experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I don't
know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone.
I know that anytime, anywhere, I
can go out and meet attractive women.
I've written a book on the topic,
and I've done seminars on both coasts of the United States... and taught
tens of thousands of men all around the world.
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David DeAngelo is the
author of “Double Your Dating - What Every Man Should Know About
How To Be Successful With Women”, and has taught thousands of men how
to be more successful with women and
dating.
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