By studying marketing and sales, I've learned that humans are attracted to things that are unique. They are also attracted to things that are superior. So I have a phrase that I use: "Different in a preferential way." In the mating game, it pays to be different in an ATTRACTIVE way.

What I'm about to share with you is a group of ingredients. These are the different ingredients to which women are attracted. It's up to you to take what you have and to use this list to augment your personality in such a way that it becomes attractive to the type of women with whom you're interested. The key is to be different in an attractive way.

But make sure that you're not too different! If you get too carried away with this idea, you'll be outside of the realm of 'normal' and you will wind up hurting yourself. So experiment and test to see what works for you.