I've learned that it's more interesting to GO somewhere and DO something with a woman than it is to go on a 'date'. If you want to do more than just have coffee with a woman, consider going somewhere fun to shop. I prefer funky, eclectic neighborhoods and shops. These are places full of wacky and fun items. It will give you an ongoing, changing set of things to talk about.

And the best part is that you don't have to buy anything.

When you go to these types of places, you can just have fun and talk. Make sure you wander away from her a few times while you're out. This keeps the 'I'm not needy' thing going on.

Remember, you don't have to spend money to have fun.