I think that it's important to look at the differences between men and women from an objective perspective.

Remember that just about every thought and behavior that a woman has, no matter how little sense it may make to you, has some positive intention behind it.

"I believe that underneath it all, men are usually trying to find women who will give them sex, and women are usually trying to find men who will give them loyalty and commitment."

Drama is often to get attention. Jealousy is often a way of protecting a relationship. Games are often used to make sure that a man is serious and willing to invest energy.

So as you work to become more successful with women, remember not to take things personally. Don't get discouraged if you encounter games, drama, and things that you don't understand. It's all part of the game.

I believe that underneath it all, men are usually trying to find women who will give them sex, and women are usually trying to find men who will give them loyalty and commitment. This has evolved over many millions of years, and these goals contain an obvious conflict of interest.

So just realize this conflict exists, and as you learn, remember to take it into consideration.

And, of course, don't take any of it personally. Men have been dealing with all of these same issues for a long, long time.