I Need Advice...Did I Take It Too Far?

Hi David D,

I would like to introduce myself as Dan Davids (24 yrs old). I still remember, a year back I was trying to get some tips off the internet on dating women. I came across your work and immediately subscribed to your newsletter. I am a logical person and your extensive research in this field has brought me lot of insights to flirting and attraction. I got all this stuff from your newsletters. Yes, I know...I will have to subscribe to your programs, I was unable to afford it as a student and now that I have recently graduated and looking for a job. I am planning to buy the interview series and deep inner game - cause I think I should start of with that as soon as I get a job.

I am writing to you cause I would like to have your expert opinion. I know this letter is long ( I hate reading long letters) but then I didn't want to miss out on any detail as I know you pay attention to every detail.

I met this girl, she recently separated from her husband ( He was a drunk). She (25 yrs old) invited me to this church, (we met at a club) After church, I told her that I was very thirsty. I blamed this on her as she had asked me to come to church in a hurry and that I had left on an empty stomach. We had fun that night. I kept busting her all the time and knew she loved it from the way she reacted along with subtle body language clues. I am good at palm reading and did a little massage and taught her few things on types of personalities. She also told me she watched sex and the city - I told her what each of the characters personality type was and she told me that she never had a friend she could talk too about this stuff.

After that Sunday, I sent couple of funny text messages to her - ( I think this is where it all started). I sent this over couple of days.

TEXT 1: Hi, I urgently need your help. I am in prison now and I was captured for having good looks. They say that I need someone ugly to bail me out. TEXT 2: Hi - I am a virus and am entering your brain right now...wait, hold on, sorry unable to find brain...leaving now..

TEXT 3: It is charming, incredibly handsome, extremely good, well shaped, an animal in bed and knows one French word - Moi ! She replied to this saying - I know one English word - 'Bye - Bye" I busted her on this and told her that she wrote the entire sentence in English? and called her a Dork!

I had a sense of feeling that she might have taken this too far. so I sent her this text - TEXT 4: A memory lasts forever, and never does it die. True friends stay together and never say 'Bye-Bye'

I met her in church the next Sunday. She never said a word. And after church, she said bye and started to leave. I asked her why she was upset, she said she didnt like all the text messages I sent her (she was walking and talking). I giggled and explained to her that they were just funny text messages. I mentioned to her that my friends have sent me these messages and I just forwarded it to her. She never replied. Meanwhile, I was just gigling on the side cause I couldn't believe how she can take this seriously (she is beautiful and smart). I asked her again " How can you take this seriously ? " She then said that she appreciates that I came to church with her and then asked me to leave her alone. I said " My God , I thought you had a sense of humor! " She just kept walking towards her car. I told her to take care of herself and said bye. She said Bye - in a never hoping to meet you kinda way.

I was upset....not because I lost a good friend, but because I didnt learn anything from this short relationship. Was I being too cocky? The thing is I love going to that church and I am not going to stop going there. I know I am going to run into her from time to time - Well I guess I will have to handle it.

Should I write an email ( Not apologizing, just explaining how she got things screwed up) explaining to her that none of the texts were targeted towards her and that I actually forward these text messages to beautiful and smart girls so that they can clearly see that it is funny?

Please let me know about this. I have already recommended few of my friends to take a look at your newsletters so that they might be interested in the programs.

Your advice is very valuable to me.

Best Regards, Daniel Davids.

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